LIVING ROOM MEMORIES  95 

(August 29, 2007)

A friend sent me this quote from a book by Jonathan Zeuss, M.D.:

“Depression is a quest for vision; its essence is transformation. Depression wells up and encompasses us for a time in a state of painful, dream-saturated formlessness, but its true purpose is to provide the opportunity for healing insight, renewal, and reintegration…”

One of my favorite books on depression is New Light on Depression by Harold G. Koenig, M.D. and David B. Biebel, D. Min. Much of the book deals with depression from a Christian perspective. I think it’s Biebel who said, “…depression’s saving grace is not that it can be conquered but that it puts depressed persons of faith in touch with deeper truths about reality, spirituality, and themselves than might otherwise be known.” (Yes, I think I understand more about life than those for whom life has been easier.)

He goes on to say – and this is a little bit of a different positive angle I can really relate to:

“Having one’s capacity for serenity and joy restored is little compensation for the agony of despair, much less the ‘despair beyond despair.’ The only true compensation for depression has to do with the sense of purpose and fulfillment that comes from redemptive involvement with others in distress, sharing the comfort we’ve experienced. This is the true route to joy.”

In my own way, I’ve found a purpose that I probably would not have had, were it not for my bouts with the effects of bipolar disorder – especially the depression. I’ve come to think of depression as fodder, something bad out of which good can come. Though I suffer as much as anyone while I’m going through it, I know it will help me to help others. And I believe that helping others IS “the true route to joy.”